Friday, May 29, 2015

Our 18th-month-old Daughter

Amberly Faith,
Your toddler stage has come with its own new set of challenges. You are very smart and very opinionated, therefore the ever too common control battles have already begun, and you keep us on our toes often. 

Needless to say, the more you turn into a little girl the more and more fun you are and the more rewarding it is to be your parents.

We are crazier than ever about you and your little personality.

We got random snow in April, which Utah desperately needed. So you had a Daddy Daughter date playing in the snow that evening, since you were aching to get out and play in it all day long and Mommy was too sick to play.


Your new swimming suit came in the mail so we could play hard this summer.
Remember what I said about your ever emerging, sassy little personality?
More and more coy every day.

We still hang out in Centerville occasionally with Nana and Papa Ditto and Uncle Josh while Daddy works in Bountiful. We're trying to get you to enjoy the swings more and be less timid in the park. I caught a good moment on camera.

Had to snap a photo of you in my favorite Lamby Jammies. 
You still love your books to pieces.
So much, in fact, that sometimes you get mad when Mommy tries to read to you.
You're becoming Ms. Independent and have to "read" to yourself instead!
However, when you wake up from your nap you have to be held by your mama, and mama alone. It's actually kind of sweet.

Mommy still tries to be as physically active as possible. We hiked part of the Mt. Olympus trail with a few ladies in the ward a few weeks ago. Mommy loves being in nature! I think you would have been more content if you could have hiked it yourself, but overall you did pretty good.

Thanks for being an angel and letting me take the time to exercise every day. When I don't wake up early enough, we have to get creative and you often have to be patient and wait for me to finish. I really appreciate it, Little Goose. Guaranteed, I'm a better Mommy for being able to stay fit.

You blow us away with how darling you are, and how much you turn into a little girl and out of a baby every day.

As soon as Daddy walks in the door from work, you shout "Bahh!" because you're ready to go outside and play ball with him.

Nap time. Oh nap time. Some days it's a breeze like when you were a baby, others, it's a 30 (or even 60 minute!) battle that Mom will win. You're just so smart and you'd rather not sleep if you have energy to play instead. Naps are so important for you though, my sweetest Amberly Faith. And I have to find a way to cuddle you each day. I just have to. 

Sometimes when we get too excited about life, we have to do a 
"Squeeeeeeze!!"
Our current favorite trick, so funny.

Other favorite "tricks" our Amberly performs: 
'1, 2. 3...SMILE!' and you do your cheesiest, prettiest smile. Kills us. 
You also say "Jos" for Uncle Josh, "Peeaase" or just "Eeease" if your lazy for 'please'
and you will go crazy signing "More" whenever you're hungry. The cutest. You often get hangry (hungry and angry combined) so we need to avoid getting to that point.
We are trying to teach you to use your words more. You only like big girl spoons, forks and cups. You get angry if we give you your sippy cup and there's a regular cup nearby. It's like it totally offends you because you think you're a big girl already. Like I said, Ms. Independent.

Jon's annual family reunion at Zion's National Park, 2015.
This girl loves her bubbles, what kid doesn't?
"Buhh!! Buhh!! Buhh!"

Daddy Daughter time


Grandma Davis is 95 years old next week, sharp as a tack, and beautiful as ever.
The dark hair, eyes, and skin tone come from your Great Grandma Davis's side, Amberly Faith.

More fun pics from Memorial Day weekend. We spent some fun time with the Mecham's when we got home that evening!


You've been to nursery twice now, and you've actually handled the transition pretty well! Someone suggested having Daddy drop you off instead of Mommy, and that has proven successful to your having less tears, for sure. You just have to be held the entire time and you look at the other kids like they're crazy, but we're glad you're there and not crying. We know it's good for you to be around other children.

(You do the same thing whenever I take you to story time at the library. You stay on top of me, too timid to play, and you look at the other kids like they're a bunch of maniacs. It makes me laugh every time.) Daddy and I both were actually pretty sad when we dropped you off at nursery your first day. We went to Sunday School thinking "Okay, time for another baby." And we found it difficult to remember what it's like to pay attention the entire time without you there to entertain us. :)

As long as you are well fed and well rested, Little Girl, you really are a delightful, fun, hilarious little person to be around!  

Mommy and Daddy love you more and more each day.


Monday, April 27, 2015

To Seth

You were in my dream again, Brother.

You just listened intently as I cried and talked and told you how much I love you and miss you.

You looked the same, just more tired.

And with more wisdom than ever before.

More love, knowledge, and a deeper perspective in your eyes.

It was only a dream
But in that moment,
you were so real
You were right here, standing before me.

And so I live and pray for those moments to see you briefly again.

Love you forever, Brother
You are so missed around here.

Monday, April 13, 2015

Amberly's First Steps! (And many other updates)

She took her sweet and rather stubborn time. Why walk when crawling is so much fun?
But at 16 months and almost 3 weeks, (just shy of 17 months!) Amberly Faith took that leap of courage and ventured to take those first steps. We have dreamed of this moment for so long, it was like everything just stood still as we watched her teeter along. She is so precious!

Uncle David was a major catalyst in this. I was away at the General Women's Meeting when he declared "That's it, Amberly! This is boot camp! You've got to start walking." And he pulled out the craisins as her little incentives and away they went. By the time I arrived, she had already taken her first few steps! I was elated.

I love this one because she claps for herself at the end. 
Most mothers kept telling me how lucky I was that she was so slow to begin walking, but I was a little concerned she might not be walking by nursery! It's always bittersweet when my baby reaches a new milestone in her life. I am so sad to say goodbye to the infant stage but every new phase of life is so exciting!



Another major highlight of my life right now:
Amberly's pigtails.
Are you kidding me? I die a little every time.
We call her Boo from Monster's Inc.

And just her hair in general, which I completely adore. It's funny how I never have loved my own hair, but I can't help but be in love with the fact that her hair is lightening to my color and becoming more curly like her Mama's.

The most common comments people make about this girl regard her hair and her Daddy's big chocolate eyes.

And nothing seems wrong in life when she smiles or belly laughs.

This girl thought the wind up by Thanksgiving Point was the best thing ever. Pure joy.

We also had the best playdate ever with my besties from high school. We checked out the upgrades at Hogle Zoo.

Cora Jayne kisses. Amberly's little bestie from Manhattan.

This was one of my favorite days as of late. 

Daddy's Lucky Charm was of course part of our St. Patty's Day celebrations.

And I finally caught Amberly's favorite sleeping position on camera. Makes me and Jon laugh every time. It is her favorite! She can sleep extra long hours this way.


And someone is old enough for disciplining to begin when she throws food on the ground. Now if Mom and Dad can manage to pull it off without laughing hysterically...

This is actually helping! She hands the food she doesn't want to me rather than throwing it overboard lately. I'll take it!

Amberly met our wonderful Dr. Foulk, who helped bring her to us in March 2013! She looks concerned...

And for Easter this year, I thought it would be cute for her to use my old basket from my childhood. It seemed Grandma bought one of every kind of candy from the store for her grandbabies, so I kept her basket pretty simple. It was super fun putting it together!

She sits on her knees a lot lately and of course that's super darn cute too.

This last week we had cousins from Seattle in town so Amberly got lots of cousin time!
Darling little Eli has lots of snuggles for her.

And Aliya and Amberly, only seven months apart, are really getting to know each other now! Whenever they aren't fighting over the same toy, they really seem to like each other. ;)

We got a four generation picture with Amberly's awesome, energetic Great-grandmother Ditto.


In case it isn't obvious, Amberly is completely head over heels for her Uncle Josh.


And this picture is from last September but in honor of Amberly's Great-Grandpa Ditto I wanted to re-post it. What a fun, playful, happy man he was. He recently passed away and we were at his funeral in Helena Montana this last weekend. 
 We love you, Grandpa.

My girl is almost 18 months old. One and a half years already! 
Being a wife and mother is the best thing that has ever happened to me, hands down.
I never knew I was capable of loving someone so unconditionally, so purely. It is incredibly refreshing to love this way. 

Amberly Faith, your Mama loves you with all her heart.